when objects are in motion, be the outside force.

constants will remain constants until their forced to become variables. The birds chirp, the bees buzz, cars drive, the world spins...It is what it is. An object in motion stays in motion unless acted upon by an outside force. Life can be depressing if you think about how little control you have. Everything is everything,  it was all set in motion long before you got here & will continue long after your gone. Long ago dinosaurs were the dominant species on the planet, now humans are despite the fact that dinosaurs are much better equipped to survive than us because somewhere between us and them an asteroid pwnd their existence in 1 stroke & changed everything. Everything was in motion,  humans would not have survived like we did if our competition in the food chain was the T-rex and the Veloci-Raptor, we couldn't be apex predators if that was the case.

The way things were set in motion we were done for already, but the outside force was big enough to change everything.

The point of all this:

-Your not really doing it unless you ARE one of those things that are set in motion, you have to be a constant because your competing with things that are constants & intermittent effort is not going to win in the long term.

-If your not doing it, be the outside force that acts on all these objects already in motion.

-be explosive, you can't throw ice cubes at the sun & expect to get anywhere... explode on to the scene & change everything.

-Your day to day routine IS an object in motion & if its not to your liking you need to adjust your routine so it meets your preference or be a dinosaur waiting for the asteroid.

Being "good" is a myth, the elites are just hustlers who put numbers up.

High Volume Initiative

   • there are no masters.. nobody is above the process, nobody is just "good" if kobe stops putting numbers up.. he stops being kobe..

   • success needs to be attained then re-attained, put up numbers again and again..

   • success & abundance come from consistent effort in high volume

Athletes do 22726628 jump shots, jog 338779 miles, play 3726399 games,  & devote their whole lives to putting numbers up.

Why?

Because people are utterly HELPLESS as far as controling peoples behavior or situational outcomes, but you can massively stack the odds in your favor by putting numbers up. Most people are mistakenly trying to get the maximum results out of the minimum investment and their inherently limited because reactive decision making & lack of direction becomes the default for them & if you have no strong motive for being better than the default you peak early & fizzle out... most people are on the path to peaking early and fizzling out.

You now have a choice, procrastination or initiative, which one will you pick?

Its Always On: why you do or do not have an active sex life.

If you don't fuck alot of girls, here is why:

You don't assume its on so you quit and/or get too frustrated to notice your chance to get the girl before sex can even happen, you don't identify with being attractive & your still striving to please girls rather than fully being yourself around them.

Girls like sex as much as you so they only acknowledge guys who they view as sex worthy the same way u only notice hot girls & ugly girls kinda fade out of your attention span.

If their giving you the time of day... ITS FOR A REASON... just like if your talking to a girl.. its also for a reason.

No girl wants to humor all your dumb little jokes & give u all types of attention & validation so they can sit at home facebooking about their ex's... They want to fuck & sooner rather than later.

But why is it still hard then???

Because its hard for YOU... why the hell wouldn't it be just as hard for her?? You think every girl is confident enough to shamelessly fuck some random guy without a little bit of hand holding?? You really think she knows how to navigate that situation without damaging her image & giving her power away??

Of course she doesn't, your asking waaayyy too much of the girl.

New rule:
If a girl gives you attention, its cuz she wants you to go for it.

The method is then to do all the hand holding she needs to allow herself to allow you to fuck her.

This is why there should be nooooo insecurity on your behalf... your good enough, she has no crazy criteria and there are no complicated moves u need to execute.. their just as worried as you would be if you were in their shoes & just need u to make it easy on them so they can get in state & feel irreverent & entitled enough to do crazy shit without caring about the consequences just like you. The more fun you have with her the easier you make it, the more responsibility you take the more convenient it is & the less ridged expectations you set for her the more she can relax around you. She doesn't owe you shit, she can choose to do whatever & its HER choice so all you can do is influence her in that direction with your own fun & genuine behavior.

The fuck methods method: (FMM)

1. Command her attention however u have to
2. Hold her hand from open to close in whatever way is situationally appropriate.

Here's some motivation:

Its not what you know its who you know: How to Leverage Relationships & Gain Influence

Scarcity Vs. Abundance mindsets:

• Networking is NOT a tool to manipulate or control people & trying to use it to do so will work against you, believe me, your reputation in your field is the most valuable thing you have, don't fuck it up by doing some sketchy shit to try and get over... no matter what your situation is, you need to adopt the "abundance mindset" and realize that there is always enough to go around, your attitude should not be “whats in it for me” but “how can i help this person”.

How do you get contacts?:

• in short -communication... you need to be good at conversing & socializing, if your not, i highly recommend hitting up some type of social event and practicing there.

Boldness and Authenticity:

• Be your self, nobody wants to "network" their not computers their people they want to socialize, be natural, never try to sell anything, soon as that happens people mark you as spam and you become invisible, However the name of the game is standing out, this is not for the timid, being bold and different is not optional.

Influence & Leverage:

• Like I mentioned before, your goal is not to sell anything or use anyone. Your goal is to create a small community within a community where your liked and respected, you don't manipulate people into giving you opportunities or introducing you to people, they do it because they want to. All you do is line everything up to happen your way.

Money In the Bank:

• How do you line things up? easy, In boxing there's a strategy known as putting "money in the bank", what it refers to is throwing lots of body punches early in the fight so you tire your opponent out & make your job easy in the later rounds. This same strategy allows you to gain leverage politically within your community.

1. Find the community that you want influence in, if your into ABC, find the events and places where everyone else into ABC congregates.
2. Socialize -Alot. like its your job, this is a numbers game, the one person you don't reach out to now could be the one that's most beneficial to be aligned with later.
3. Win these people over, show them you have a personality. Don't solicit anything or people will put you in their mental spam folder.
4. Aim for the leaders, influence trickles down, if your friends with the leaders the followers like you to.

Using Relationships to your Advantage:

• Here's the fun part, now that you have all these relationships with people inside your community, Your job is now to give them the news of whatever it is your working on (give them news don't solicit) & allow their natural enthusiasm for whatever that news is to motivate them to want to be a part of it.

Congratulations Your a Big shot!

• Influence is awesome, use it wisely. Here's a video where marketing guru seth godin tackles this subject.