Its Always On: why you do or do not have an active sex life.

If you don't fuck alot of girls, here is why:

You don't assume its on so you quit and/or get too frustrated to notice your chance to get the girl before sex can even happen, you don't identify with being attractive & your still striving to please girls rather than fully being yourself around them.

Girls like sex as much as you so they only acknowledge guys who they view as sex worthy the same way u only notice hot girls & ugly girls kinda fade out of your attention span.

If their giving you the time of day... ITS FOR A REASON... just like if your talking to a girl.. its also for a reason.

No girl wants to humor all your dumb little jokes & give u all types of attention & validation so they can sit at home facebooking about their ex's... They want to fuck & sooner rather than later.

But why is it still hard then???

Because its hard for YOU... why the hell wouldn't it be just as hard for her?? You think every girl is confident enough to shamelessly fuck some random guy without a little bit of hand holding?? You really think she knows how to navigate that situation without damaging her image & giving her power away??

Of course she doesn't, your asking waaayyy too much of the girl.

New rule:
If a girl gives you attention, its cuz she wants you to go for it.

The method is then to do all the hand holding she needs to allow herself to allow you to fuck her.

This is why there should be nooooo insecurity on your behalf... your good enough, she has no crazy criteria and there are no complicated moves u need to execute.. their just as worried as you would be if you were in their shoes & just need u to make it easy on them so they can get in state & feel irreverent & entitled enough to do crazy shit without caring about the consequences just like you. The more fun you have with her the easier you make it, the more responsibility you take the more convenient it is & the less ridged expectations you set for her the more she can relax around you. She doesn't owe you shit, she can choose to do whatever & its HER choice so all you can do is influence her in that direction with your own fun & genuine behavior.

The fuck methods method: (FMM)

1. Command her attention however u have to
2. Hold her hand from open to close in whatever way is situationally appropriate.

Here's some motivation: